Instead of treating yourself to 'lazy weeks' where you indulge in junk and alcohol, you have started prioritizing physical, mental and emotional well-being. If you have started maintaining a balanced lifestyle and adopting healthy habits, you are definitely winning.
You see an amazing pair of shoes in the market or a new coffee machine that instantly catches your attention. You go ahead, tap your card and buy it. This shows that you are winning in life. When you do not have to re- think about indulgences once a while, it is a good sign.
While having a day-in sure does charm you, you do not give in to the temptation of sitting down all day, munching away at the snacks. Instead, your days have become more productive where you create and achieve your goals.
You have started being in genuine, supportive and loving relationships that are based on trust, communication and mutual respect instead of just going out randomly with people who play with your emotions and weaknesses later.
If a large group of friends or partying in the newly opened club does not excite you anymore and you think you'll be happier with the 2 friends you have or reading alone instead of going out and these decisions don't bother you, well, you are winning in life.
If you are giving back to society, not just in the form of money donations, but also finding time to volunteer, run common errands or the like, it is for sure that you are winning in life while making a meaningful difference in others' lives.